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Monday, May 4th, 2009
Throwing the bride’s bouquet, as well as catching the bride’s bouquet, has its moments.
Erratic brides have been known to underestimate their throwing capabilities and throwing the bouquet so far that no self-respecting person would bother to run for it. Or, as in playing squash, in the nervousness of the moment, bouquets have been known to be thrown at walls, windows, ceilings, and most disastrously, into overhead ceiling fans.
On the side of the catchers, there have been moments where catching the bouquet became so violent, that a referee had to be called in to separate the combatants. As embarrassing as that might have been, there have also been those weddings where self-assertive women refused to play this silly old-fashioned game where women were thought to be dying to catch the bouquet so that they would be the next in line to get married.
Ha! They weren’t that desperate!
So, perhaps, before the bride decides to enliven the wedding by tossing the bouquet among the unwed females, she should count up just how many unwed single females she’s inviting, and just how many are actively looking for life-long partners. And, of course, and most importantly, she should get in some throwing practice to ensure the accuracy of the landing.
Having said that, why do brides bother with this bit of tom foolery? And is there any truth that whoever catches the bouquet will be the next to wed?
As far as throwing the bouquet is concerned it’s all about the lucky wedding couple sharing their good fortune, the flowers being yet one more symbol of it. In this spirit, some brides compose a bouquet which consists of dozens of minuscule bouquets. When she is about to throw it, the bride unties the ribbon which holds it in place, and literally showers guests with minute bouquets and good fortune.
As for weddings, have you noticed how when one of your friends gets married, not long after another follows suit?
Could it be that by catching a bouquet you will become the next bride? Actually, that’s a bit psychology in the making. In this part of the wedding, the female who is actively searching for a partner, has the opportunity to make herself visible to a prospective husband. If she is truly serious, she should make that opportunity count. Like the thrower, she should practice graceful and nimble leaps to make herself memorable to all those young bucks watching. If she can continue to hold their interest after the catch, so much the better.
Never forget, would be brides, weddings are catching!
Vlady Peters is an Australian Civil Marriage Celebrant authorised to perform marriages in Australia. She also perform general ceremonies such as Baby Naming, Renewal of Vows and Commitment Ceremonies. To learn more about her as a celebrant and an author visit vlady at http://www.weddings-celebrant.com
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Saturday, April 18th, 2009
Honeymoon is the most wonderful time of every couple’s life. It is a time to move away from all the hustle and bustle and to relax in the arms of your partner in your own world. Such a special occasion demands some planning. Planning can make your honeymoon worthwhile.
Talk amongst yourself and discuss which is the place that both of you like. If you both want to keep your honeymoon confined to your state, surely United States is a perfect place to enjoy the exclusive moments. You can opt for the breathtaking city of New York, the dynamic city of Las Vegas, Chicago with its adorable summers or the ecstatic Michigan Avenue South in winters. If you are an admirer of beaches, the spell bound beaches of Miami are always a perfect and open option. Honeymoons within your state are relatively less expensive than those planned abroad. But the excitement and the exuberance is the same in both the cases.
If you want to freak out abroad with your partner, there are several places to go. The awesome and romantic places in New England like Martha’s Vineyard, Cape Cod, Newport, Maine’s seacoast and so forth have their own charm that magnetizes the honeymoon couples. Not to forget are the superlative and incredible Niagara Falls and the Great Smoky Mountains. These are some of the evergreen honeymoon destinations that are thronged and adored by the couples.
Besides your discretion also consider the weather and the climatic conditions of the place you plan to explore. For instance in the case of extreme cold a move to a warm and cozy destination is an excellent idea.
Budget is always the highest parameter to plan any thing. Just calculate the amount that you can spend on your honeymoon without a second thought. If you have a low budget, try to minimize the luxuries. For instance staying in a five star hotel, traveling through Cruise etc. can be cut down upon. You can take up an average hotel room and eat the food at a local restaurant. But don’t commit the mistake of staying at your friend’s or relative’s house. For that will leave you with least privacy and tremendous frustration. It is also better not to opt for a place, which is too expensive according to you for this can land you into soup.
Always decide the means to travel to your destination according to your budget. If your budget does not allow you to take a first class seat in the plane, go for a second class. If you propose to stick to your state, driving is never a bad option. Generally during the wedding season all the airlines, cruises and travel agencies provide some special packages especially for the honeymoon couples. These packages provide ample of facilities and at a comparatively low cost than usual. It is a nice idea to avail these opportunities.
Take a travel agent that can advise and inform you about the different honeymoon spots, latest and beneficial packages, the cost etc. according to your budget. You can also search it out yourself at the internet.
Last but not the least avoid taking heavy luggage with you. This gives a chance to shop around and buy memorable things from your honeymoon destination. If you are making a trip overseas get travel insurance done to have a carefree and happy journey. Also keep all the essentials like your credit cards, medicines, creams, camera, some foodstuff and the like for it is better to have your own things than to hunt for them at a new place.
So keep these tips in mind that make your honeymoon best amongst the rest!
Tia arora writes honeymoon travel topics. Learn more at http://www.dreamhoneymoonspots.com.
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Tuesday, April 14th, 2009
It is such a rewarding experience when you reach out to someone else. It feels great when someone reaches out to you, but when you take the time and energy out of your life to help someone else if just feels so wonderful. When first meeting someone it is great when you initiate the conversation. You take the first step and get the ball rolling. The eye contact is so important because it let’s the other person know that you are present and truly want to connect with them.
If you have ever had a conversation with someone that is not looking at you then you will know how strange it is and how you don’t feel a true connection. After initiating and looking in the eye it is so good when you find something that you both like and have in common. Or if you don’t have something in common it is great if you understand their point of view and respect it because this is the healthiest option. Each of us views things a certain way for a specific reason; and that is what is so great about this world, that we can view things differently and be alright.
If I meet someone and I just love dogs but they don’t and prefer cats, then that is cool. I am not going to get all agitated about the love for dogs, they should love dogs, dogs are great and I can respect that. It makes for such a better place to live when we can appreciate our differences and respect them. It makes for such a great place to live when a relationship is initiated and sought after.
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Wednesday, March 18th, 2009
Your Mom says she won’t come to the wedding if your Dad is there. Uncle Ferdie’s ex-wife is a life-long friend to you, but you know it will upset Uncle Ferdie and other relatives if you invite her to the wedding. Dad says he won’t ask his wife to skip the reception and sit in the back of the church to keep from upsetting Mom. Your sister is refusing to let her daughter be your flower girl because you invited her ex-husband to the ceremony.
Does it sound familiar? Then you might be a bride with the blended family blues. The reality is that many brides today face unprecedented challenges in navigating the treacherous terrain of family life. With about half of today’s marriages ending in divorce – there is a plethora of jilted spouses, scheming cousins and hurt feelings running amok.
Even the simplest wedding celebrations – with a few family twists – can turn any sane woman into a bridezilla. As a first-time bride marrying a man with three children – even I had a few of these monsters to stare down. If my groom’s father attended the wedding, his mother would not come. A divorce in the family had split a branch of cousins in two – my mom didn’t see how we could invite the “ex’ half of the equation now.
What’s a bride to do to find peace and have a wonderful wedding day?
#1 – Bury your own hatchet and keep perspective. The bride is the center of attention on her big day – but not the universe. A wedding is a celebration of love and happiness – not a weapon for wielding and wounding.
Your wedding is not the time to remind your sister about the “great” guy she divorced, or to snub your dad’s wife or mother’s new husband. Even if you blackmail one or both parents into ditching their current spouses during the ceremony, the emotional repercussions of wedding invitations can ring for years.
Think about the atmosphere you want to set for your guests. It may please you to no end to keep “him” or “her” from sitting down front next to your parents, but consider your guests and their feelings. Think about the legacy you want to build as you create a new family.
#2 – If you want for your wedding to be a family occasion, then treat it like one and honor your relatives. Honor your relatives by inviting them – and their current spouses. Part of honoring relatives is to respect their relationship choices. Even if you are friends with your sister’s ex-husband and have coffee every week with Uncle Ferdie’s jilted wife, the reality is that you owe respect to the relationships your family members have chosen to formalize and de-formalize.
Formalized family relationships rank higher on the pecking order than friends of the family – which is a status ex-spouses slide into by default. If someone has divorced his/her spouse, inquire discreetly about their feelings on a wedding invitation for the ex. Some people may not care if their ex-spouse is invited. Others may request that their ex-spouse be invited to only the ceremony or seated as a friend and not with the family. Some will request that their ex-spouse not be invited at all and be miffed that you would even suggest such a thing.
If you opt not to invite the ex-spouse, have a private lunch or get-together to celebrate your nuptials. And explain the situation – most will understand. If you don’t know them well enough to get together privately – you probably don’t know them well enough to invite them to the wedding anyway.
#3 – Ask your relatives to not carry their personal battles with other relatives into your wedding. Ask your parents to stop working out their own divorce and to bury their respective hatchets for one day. If Aunt Martha and Cousin Vinny don’t get along, seat them at separate tables and tell them both that the dance floor in between is a demilitarized zone that is not to be crossed.
Don’t give into blackmail by your relatives that force you to choose between people who are legitimately related to you. In our own case of wedding détente. My husband and I opted to invite both of his parents. Due to distance and illness, one of his parents could not attend. We felt good about being able to honor all our parents with invitations and not having to choose between them.
There are no easy solutions to the tangled emotional maelstrom that swirls around the average wedding. The best advice – proceed with caution.
Dawn Miller writes a column on life in blended families at http://www.thestepfamilylife.com
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Friday, March 6th, 2009
Did you know the average cost of a Wedding in America is somewhere around $20,000. With this as an average figure you can then determine whether you need to hire a wedding planner or if you are going to plan your wedding yourself. It’s really important to sit down and look at your finances and get realistic as to how much you are willing to spend on your wedding and how much you can afford to spend on wedding. It is really important to come up with a figure as to how much you are willing to spend. Your money is your money so value it.
When you have a figure to work with you can then write a list of all the things you think you will need for your wedding and then work out how much you are willing to spend on each item. Don’t be like a lot of people please who go out there with no clue and end up in huge debt for the rest of their lives. I have seen many women in tears because they worked into a bridal store and got conned into buying a $10,000 wedding gown when they just couldn’t afford. I have seen people in shock as they have been handed a $15,000 bill for the catering alone. If you don’t want this to happen to you then you need to plan for your wedding.
It is a good idea to plan a budget for the bridal shower, bucks night and honeymoon as well. In all you need to be realistic as to what you want and how much you are willing to pay. There are so many ways you can save money on your wedding but make sure you have done your homework, looked around, got estimations and worked out a figure for all the items you need.
Here is a list of some of the things you may need if you plan to have a traditional wedding
Rings
Bride, Groom, Engraving
Stationery
Invitations, Setting Placements, Response Cards, Thank you Cards, Napkins
Ceremony
Marriage License, Musician, Celebrant, Good Will?, Flower Girl Basket, Ring Bearer Pillow, Alter Pews Arrangements, Church Arrangements
Bouquets
Bride, Bridesmaids, Flower Girl, One for Tossing
Corsages
Groom, Groomsmen, Other Family Members
Attire
Bridal Gown, Bridesmaids Dresses, Flower Girl Dress, Head Pieces and or Veil, Gloves, Garter, Shoes
Grooms Formal Wear, Groomsmen’s Attire, Page Boy’s Attire, Undergarments, Cuff Links, Accessories
Jewelry
Transport
Reception
Reception Site, Wedding Cake, Floral Arrangements, Food, Drinks, Music, Photography, Video Person
Rentals, Caterers
Other Hidden Cost
Make Up Artist, Beautician, Manicurist, Tent, Table Chairs
For more detailed guides visit http://www.ezweddings101.com today.
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Saturday, February 28th, 2009
There are a variety of different marriage “groups” out there. As you discover your group, you will be better able to determine if it’s the group you want to be in for the rest of your life, or if some adjustments are in order.
Convenience Marriage
When you got married, you were genuinely in love with your spouse. However, as the years rolled by and your time was taken up with jobs, children and other activities, you grew apart. Now you are in a marriage of convenience.
You rarely see each other, and that’s okay, but you do wish you shared more than just the expenses of a household.
Just as it took time to grow apart, it will take time to grow back together. Fear not, all is not lost if you are willing to put forth the effort.
Start slowly by finding time to spend with each other and rediscover how wonderful your spouse really is. Take an interest in some of the things that interest your spouse, find some common interests to develop with each other; just start spending time together.
Look for opportunities to plan a special activity or date that will help you get reacquainted.
Abusive Marriage
An abusive marriage is one where you are physically or emotionally abuse by your spouse. In many cases, this is a learned behavior from their childhood. Therefore, it can be unlearned with a lot of counseling and love.
No one should be led to believe that they belong in this group, everyone deserves a non-abusive marriage relationship.
Work on getting help for you and the abuser. If they are unwilling, then you need to get help dealing with the situation. It’s important to realize that if the abuse continues, then your only choice may be to leave the relationship.
Status Marriage
“Didn’t she marry well?” was heard by many of the guests at your wedding when you have a marriage for status. Yes, it’s important to marry a man that will provide for your needs. However, if you marry someone strictly for money or status and have nothing else in common…you’ll soon find that money isn’t everything.
What do you do if you fall in this group? It’s never too late to discover things about your spouse that will endear your heart. Try to look for the good things your spouse does for your and your children. Thank them for those good things and encourage them to give of their time and not just things.
Take time to get to know your spouse and develop a relationship that is based on deeper things.
Invisible Spouse Marriage
The invisible spouse marriage is one where you or your spouse are so busy with either work or outside activities, that you never see each other except passing at the front door…if that.
There are some jobs that require a lot of time away from family. There are also people who give more time and effort to their job than their family.
This may be due to a false sense of loyalty to their employer or their desire to be the number one guy/gal at work.
Additionally, there are many great causes out there to affiliate your time and talents with. However, if it is as the expense of your spouse and family, then it’s too great a cost.
Whatever the reason for your invisible marriage, it’s time to stop and figure out how to reduce your outside time and increase your together time.
At first it will seem like a great sacrifice. Yet as you work together to figure out what things to streamline and what things will help grow your marriage, you’ll be surprised at the joy that will return to your relationship.
Enduring Marriage
These are the marriages that we all dream of, the ones where you see a sweet older couple hobbling down the sidewalk hand in hand and smiling.
These marriages don’t happen by accident, they happen by positive, daily, consistent effort. It takes work to have an enduring marriage.
A marriage that will endure financial hardship, illness, troubled children, heart breaks and more is enduring because the couple gets through all these difficult times by helping each other through them.
Rather than saying, “Why me?”, they say, “Why not me?” and work together to get through the current challenge. They have the ability to get through these difficult times because the have built up a storehouse of happy memories, experiences and they trust each other to the end.
They have laughed together, cried together, played together and worked together. They know they can always count on each other and that is what makes and enduring marriage endure.
This marriage is possible for each one of us, if we’re willing to put forth the daily, weekly, monthly and yearly effort.
So which group are you in…and do you want to stay there? It’s never too late to change groups…it just takes love, courage and a willingness to try.
Beth Young is the Senior Editor of the leading marriage advise web site,
MarriageAdvise.com. To download your free ebook titled, “101 Marriage Secrets”
visit http://www.MarrigeAdvice.com.
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Sunday, December 21st, 2008
Many of us realize that marriage is not the easiest relationship in the world, but why is it so hard? Unless we adopt children, the only relatives that we get to choose are our spouses. Seems like it should work out, right? We can not change our parents or choose new siblings, but marriage– ahh that’s a whole different thing.
Marriage brings out the best and the worst in a person’s character and shows us what we are capable of doing, both positive and negative. This special relationship challenges our mental, spiritual, social, and physical selves. Unfortunately, the natural human reaction to hard or stressful situations is fight or flight.
So after a few major disagreements with a spouse, frustrated partners second guess their initial decision to wed. The wheels start turning, and the flight response to the stressful situation becomes more and more attractive.
But what can you do if the fires of passion have burned out and only angry ones remain? How can you keep your soul connection with your spouse even during times of conflict?
1. Have confidence in the decision that you have made. Then realize that just like you wouldn’t normally divorce your mom or dad when they get on your last nerve, divorcing your spouse shouldn’t be the first thing that comes to mind when he/she annoys or disappoints you you repeatedly. I know it’s hard, but it’s a key factor in the success of your marriage.
2. If God is not at the center of your relationship, consider welcoming Him into the situation. To start, only one spouse needs to make this decision, but it’s best if both of you are on the same page. Praying together, and as individuals, can provide a solid foundation for your marriage and give you greater insight into what concerns your partner the most.
You can start with your own words or with a few books on prayer. A book that has been helpful for me, and numerous people I know, has been, Stormie Omartian: Power of a Praying Wife. The book covers everything from finances and career to sexuality, affection and emotions. It shows wives how to pray for their husbands even if they feel like they don’t have the words. And it gives excellent advice for channeling frustration, hurt or anger into productive energy.
If you are a husband, try Power of a Praying Husband. Stormie enlists the help of her husband and other men for insight and wisdom in writing this book.
3. Make mutual respect a priority in your communication. If you find yourselves attacking each other personally, instead of discussing the pros and cons of a particular decision or action, then take a step back to reevaluate the situation. Choose words that reaffirm while getting your point across. For example, instead of saying: “I hate it when you don’t make time to be with me… the kids… etc.” TRY “Remember when we did XYZ? That was so much fun and the kids loved it too. Want to do it again?” SPOUSE’S REPLY HERE “Great! What date works for you?”
Additionally, don’t let other family members–kids, in-laws, steps, exes cloud your communication with each other. When they want to butt in, *respectfully* tell them to butt out. Then re-prioritize and refocus your attention on each other.
4. Listen even if you feel like you’ve heard the same statement hashed over and over again. Sometimes venting is necessary, and if your spouse can’t release his/her mental baggage with you, to whom will they voice their concerns? The lack of listening skills in marriage is one reason emotional infidelity gets started in the first place. If you take the time to listen now, you can avoid the headaches and heartaches associated with these extramarital relationships.
5. Start a ritual just for the two of you. Ideally, you’ll both take time out to do it every day or a few times a week. Engaging in ritual behavior, like sharing coffee, watching funny movies together or taking walks, gives you something to look forward to and can help you build intimacy.
6. Consider an organized marriage retreat. Retreats are great because, the facilitators give couples helpful tools for communicating, relating and often mating. You’ll see other couples who are going through the same challenges, and you’ll have time to focus solely on your relationship. No work, no kids/in-laws, no well-meaning friends, and no focusing on the ills of life.
7. Finally, make a point to get away every once in a while. This idea dovetails from the previous suggestion, but this time you and your honey will be alone. Whether you get your kids out of the house for a weekend or you book a seven day vacation to the Bahamas, it is necessary for you and your husband or wife to have extended alone time without any distractions.
These are just a few suggestions to help you renew the soul connection with your spouse. When http://married4good.com/ officially launches in November, we’ll have tons of articles and resources on the site to help you build a solid relationship. Make sure to visit us and get additional ideas for strengthening your marriage.
Keishia Lee-Louis is the Editor and Publisher of http://www.Married4Good.com (launching November 2005). Her work has appeared on iVillage.com, BibleResourceCenter.com, and in numerous other printed publications.
Currently, she lives with her husband, daughter and son and is writing a book on marriage and relationships which will be published Spring 2006.
If you’d like to see more of her work, visit http://married4good.blogspot.com
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Wednesday, December 17th, 2008
I’m scared I’m so scared. Scared that I will die alone. So scared that I will never have that some one that will love me so much that they will give up every thing just to be by my side. I’m so alone. I’m lonely for that one person. That one person for me that I am destine to have to make my world not just a dream but a reality for me to touch and smell and see with my own hands and eyes. My dream is so rich I color and the breeze going by has such strong fragrance. The sun. The sun shines to bright I want to just fly to meet the flares to embrace the heat for that sun. But this isn’t the world I want to live in if I can’t have that person. The person I need. Without that person I see it grey. Still grey not light not darkness not breeze Just still grey. That is all I see. And touch? All I feel is cold that cold a blanket can’t touch The cold that can never be heated with a flame. But only with the touch of that person can the spark ignite the emptiness inside me So I sit in the grey Sit in the cold Sit without the touch that feeds me This This is what im so scared of Cold, grey, night, no breeze not sweet fragrance A void. Like the visions in the dark that could be there I just need my light that one person to be my color Be my light Be my breeze to bring in the smells for life I crave so much. So I sit and wait Wait for that person to answer my call Still I call Still you do not answer Still you do not answer.
http://www.originalpoetry.com/the-warm-breeze
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Saturday, November 22nd, 2008
Although the person whom it may be most important to forgive may be your spouse, your spouse can often times be the hardest person in your life to forgive. The intimate nature of marriage makes spouses vulnerable to each other. A spouse who knows you better than any other person has the most ability to offend you. And, because you share a life together your spouse also has the most opportunity to be a repeat offender. When the person you are supposed to be closest to refuses to see how his or her actions hurt you or if they continue to hurt you in the same manner over and over again it can seem that forgiveness is impossible.
There is no doubt that forgiveness under these circumstances can be very difficult. However, clearing up some common misunderstandings about forgiveness may help the process along a little.
One of the misconceptions implied by a lack of forgiveness when a spouse is not willing to apologize is that if you forgive your spouse you are somehow doing them a favour. You may be doing your spouse a favour in terms of strengthening your relationship together in the long run and if that is a bad thing you may not want to practice forgiveness.
However, forgiveness certainly does not mean admitting that your spouse didn’t hurt you or saying that what he or she did was OK. And, forgiveness definitely doesn’t mean you have to let your spouse continue to hurt you. In fact, if you are in a situation of abuse, you should take steps to insure your safety right away. In other instances forgiveness may free up enough energy to deal with the cause of the hurt in a more constructive manner.
It takes a lot of energy to be angry with someone and one thing people don’t often realize is that forgiveness is primarily something you do for yourself. You will not help your spouse realize the error of his or her ways by holding onto angry feelings. You only create tension and anxiety for yourself, which can lead to innumerable mental, emotional, and even physical problems, which in turn add further strain to your relationships.
It is true; the only person you can change is yourself. However, when you make changes to better yourself you can inspire others to change as well. So, why not start by freeing yourself of the burden of angry feelings. You’ll feel better and if as a side effect your relationship with your spouse improves you’ll win on two counts. What have you got to lose?
Jean is a marriage and couples counsellor whose approach in working with couples involves the development of techniques for solving problems and achieving unending growth in relationships. Jean strives to assist couples of various backgrounds in learning to solve their own challenges because a couple that knows how to problem solve can keep their love alive forever. Jean also offers Catholic counselling to couples wishing to incorporate the Catholic faith into the counselling process, helping couples to develop a relationship pleasing to each other and God. Jean has a Master of Arts in Counselling from the Franciscan University of Steubenville and has trained in marriage and family therapy. So, if you think that your relationship could use a little help– or even a lot of help,–give Jean a call today and take that important first step in turning your marriage into a “happily ever after” story.
Jean sees clients in her office in Fredericton, NB and offers telephone and online counselling. She can be reached at: 506-461-7279 http://www.jeanmackenzie.com
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Friday, November 21st, 2008
Have you ever noticed that after your honeymoon period is over, the magic that exists between you and your husband or wife suddenly dims and slowly wavers? Everything between the two of you falls into a regular routine of eating, sleeping, and sometimes, awkward moments can be experienced.
This can be increased when you have your own children, a good number of your attention will be focused on them. Your romance suddenly falls right on the back seat. That is why there are people who divorce their partners just after a year or two of being together under the same roof.
Maybe you should go back to the basics of your relationship, and try to gather back all the things that you need for you to keep your marriage as good as when you were proclaimed newlyweds. First is love. It is the most essential part of a relationship. Let this love bind you once again.
Have your full and endless support for each other. Though some differences may arise on some things that needs a decision, it will be very rewarding if you will support whoever is tasked to make that decision. Respect each other’s decision. Be there always for him/her, in achievements and in failure. That support, for sure, will be appreciated.
Have proper communication between the two of you. If your husband or wife committed something that annoys you, talk to him/her. Explain what you feel, and let him/her explain also. Discuss everythingproblems, rulesand other things that needs to be discussed. Do not let these problems linger and cause more rift between the two of you.
Show your care for your spouse everyday of your life. Happy couples do show how much they care for each other. Take him/her out for a dinner, or you can serve your spouse whenever they feel tired. Small things can produce large results
Relight the torch that has made your relationship burning. Rediscover what you felt for your life when you were not married yet. Looking at your marriage in a new light can make it feel new once again.
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