Archive for November, 2008
Sunday, November 23rd, 2008
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Saturday, November 22nd, 2008
Although the person whom it may be most important to forgive may be your spouse, your spouse can often times be the hardest person in your life to forgive. The intimate nature of marriage makes spouses vulnerable to each other. A spouse who knows you better than any other person has the most ability to offend you. And, because you share a life together your spouse also has the most opportunity to be a repeat offender. When the person you are supposed to be closest to refuses to see how his or her actions hurt you or if they continue to hurt you in the same manner over and over again it can seem that forgiveness is impossible.
There is no doubt that forgiveness under these circumstances can be very difficult. However, clearing up some common misunderstandings about forgiveness may help the process along a little.
One of the misconceptions implied by a lack of forgiveness when a spouse is not willing to apologize is that if you forgive your spouse you are somehow doing them a favour. You may be doing your spouse a favour in terms of strengthening your relationship together in the long run and if that is a bad thing you may not want to practice forgiveness.
However, forgiveness certainly does not mean admitting that your spouse didn’t hurt you or saying that what he or she did was OK. And, forgiveness definitely doesn’t mean you have to let your spouse continue to hurt you. In fact, if you are in a situation of abuse, you should take steps to insure your safety right away. In other instances forgiveness may free up enough energy to deal with the cause of the hurt in a more constructive manner.
It takes a lot of energy to be angry with someone and one thing people don’t often realize is that forgiveness is primarily something you do for yourself. You will not help your spouse realize the error of his or her ways by holding onto angry feelings. You only create tension and anxiety for yourself, which can lead to innumerable mental, emotional, and even physical problems, which in turn add further strain to your relationships.
It is true; the only person you can change is yourself. However, when you make changes to better yourself you can inspire others to change as well. So, why not start by freeing yourself of the burden of angry feelings. You’ll feel better and if as a side effect your relationship with your spouse improves you’ll win on two counts. What have you got to lose?
Jean is a marriage and couples counsellor whose approach in working with couples involves the development of techniques for solving problems and achieving unending growth in relationships. Jean strives to assist couples of various backgrounds in learning to solve their own challenges because a couple that knows how to problem solve can keep their love alive forever. Jean also offers Catholic counselling to couples wishing to incorporate the Catholic faith into the counselling process, helping couples to develop a relationship pleasing to each other and God. Jean has a Master of Arts in Counselling from the Franciscan University of Steubenville and has trained in marriage and family therapy. So, if you think that your relationship could use a little help– or even a lot of help,–give Jean a call today and take that important first step in turning your marriage into a “happily ever after” story.
Jean sees clients in her office in Fredericton, NB and offers telephone and online counselling. She can be reached at: 506-461-7279 http://www.jeanmackenzie.com
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Friday, November 21st, 2008
Have you ever noticed that after your honeymoon period is over, the magic that exists between you and your husband or wife suddenly dims and slowly wavers? Everything between the two of you falls into a regular routine of eating, sleeping, and sometimes, awkward moments can be experienced.
This can be increased when you have your own children, a good number of your attention will be focused on them. Your romance suddenly falls right on the back seat. That is why there are people who divorce their partners just after a year or two of being together under the same roof.
Maybe you should go back to the basics of your relationship, and try to gather back all the things that you need for you to keep your marriage as good as when you were proclaimed newlyweds. First is love. It is the most essential part of a relationship. Let this love bind you once again.
Have your full and endless support for each other. Though some differences may arise on some things that needs a decision, it will be very rewarding if you will support whoever is tasked to make that decision. Respect each other’s decision. Be there always for him/her, in achievements and in failure. That support, for sure, will be appreciated.
Have proper communication between the two of you. If your husband or wife committed something that annoys you, talk to him/her. Explain what you feel, and let him/her explain also. Discuss everythingproblems, rulesand other things that needs to be discussed. Do not let these problems linger and cause more rift between the two of you.
Show your care for your spouse everyday of your life. Happy couples do show how much they care for each other. Take him/her out for a dinner, or you can serve your spouse whenever they feel tired. Small things can produce large results
Relight the torch that has made your relationship burning. Rediscover what you felt for your life when you were not married yet. Looking at your marriage in a new light can make it feel new once again.
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Thursday, November 20th, 2008
There are numerous factors which need to be considered when deciding what kind of
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to get fitted. Getting new flooring put in in your
home can breathe new life into it and can be a great way to reinvigorate your living environment. It
may not be as expensive as you think either.
A big consideration on what flooring to choose is what the role of that room is. Flooring which is
suitable for the front room may not be suitable for the kitchen or bathroom for example. Some of the
most popular types of flooring are carpet, vinyl, wood, and laminate.
Laminate flooring can be a great alternative to wooden flooring if you are looking for a wood effect
floor at a lower cost. Laminate flooring is made from a sheet of MDF with a wood-effect plastic
surface attached to it. The downside of laminate flooring is that whilst it is scratch resistant
once it is damaged it is extremely difficult to repair. Apart from that it can still be an ideal
choice for a kitchen, where the plastic coating provides an easy to wipe clean surface. Conversely
solid wood flooring would not be advisable in a bathroom, or indeed any room which is likely to get
very humid and wet. Some woods are more vulnerable to the wet than others.
If you are looking to fit a wooden floor, its important you have the right surface to fit it on. An
ideal surface would be flat, and dry. There are options however to resolve uneven flooring issues,
such as laying ply throughout, or employing an underlay to create a floating floor.
More often than not laminate flooring is sold as a product you can assemble yourself which is a
great way of keeping costs down. Solid wood flooring requires a higher degree of DIY skills, so it
can sometimes be advisable to get solid wooden floors fitted professionally which can add a
considerable cost.
Something many people do not realise when they measure their room to calculate how much flooring
they will need to buy ” is that it is crucial to include a 10mm gap around the edge of the room for
the wooden flooring to expand and contract.
As a fundamental part of any interior design strategy, it is crucial to select the correct flooring.
Whilst wooden or laminate floors can be ideal ” often for a more chic minimalist look; carpet can be
a better option if you are trying to achieve a more traditional home feel. The important thing is
you take into account the various factors you need to consider before ordering new flooring.
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Thursday, November 20th, 2008
Giving a speech after 50 years of marriage would seem to be really easy, but expressing your emotions after 50 years doesn’t always get easier, sometimes it gets more difficult because the emotion becomes stronger, deeper, and more complicated. Whether you are the husband or wife or a dear friend that would like to make a speech, it can be difficult to find the right words to say that encapsulate a love that has been able to withstand 50 years of marriage.
If You Are One of the Couple
If you are either the husband or the wife, you should thank all of the guests for coming to celebrate 50 years of marriage with you. You should then express your gratitude to your spouse for hanging in there with you for all of these years. Share a story or some feelings with your spouse and your friends and family about a particularly inspiring time, loving time, difficult time, or a moment of levity in the 50 years of marriage that you think is appropriate. You can present your spouse with a gift during your speech as well, which is a great way to end your golden anniversary speech!
Where to Start
Starting a speech can be very difficult, so the best way to start off is with a brief introduction of yourself if you are not the husband or the wife. For instance, you don’t need to give your entire background you can simply say, “Hi, I’m Jane. I am a long time friend of Bill and Nancy and am so glad to be here today.” This will give the other guests that are at the party some idea of who you are and why you would want to give a speech at all!
What to Say
50 years of marriage, what do you say? If you are married, thank the couple for being an inspiration to you and your spouse. Thank them for sticking together and being two people that everyone could count on. You can tell the couple that you hope that your marriage can be as strong after 50 years as you know that theirs is now. If you have one, share a cute story that you think demonstrates the strength and beauty of the couple’s love. You can also present the couple with a gift, a framed picture, or a framed piece of scripture or a poem during your speech. The point of the speech is just to convey how happy you are for the couple for sticking together for 50 years, as well as to express what an inspiration they are to married people everywhere.
How to Close
Closing the speech can be the most difficult part after starting! The best thing you can do is say congratulations and that you hope to celebrate many more anniversaries, and thank them for sharing their day with you. The closing needn’t be anything extravagant, and there will likely be someone that will follow you in their congratulating the married couple for their 50th wedding anniversary.
Written by James Nardel, expert author at www.EasyWeddingToasts.com. For more information on wedding toasts and wedding speeches and toasting tips visit www.easyweddingtoasts.com
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Thursday, November 20th, 2008
Have you found yourself browsing, reading, and asking for wedding favor ideas? You’ve come to the right place! First, we have a secret to tell you: even the prettiest wedding favors should be functional. That’s right! What would you do with a personalized seashell if you received it as a wedding favor? Be honest – you’d rest it on a shelf somewhere to collect dust. Unfortunately, most couples put very little thought into their wedding favors. It seems that wedding favors are cast aside as last minute ideas that make their puzzled guests say: “huh?” once they receive it.
Don’t want to fall into that category? We don’t blame you. So you need a solution: make your wedding favors serve a purpose. Why not give a gift of edible wedding favors? You can wrap your wedding favor in gorgeous wrapping, such a tulle, so it still comes packaged to perfection. Remember, edible wedding favors do amount to a little extra care. If you’re wedding favor is chocolate, you’ll want to keep that chocolate refrigerated to keep it from melting. Just remind your wait-staff that everyone needs to go home with an edible wedding favor!
It’s important to note that not everyone is fond of chocolate. Many people have allergies to chocolate and peanuts. Some of your guests may have allergies and you might not know it! If you should decide to use peanut ingredients, or any nuts for that matter, you should somehow inform your guests. A waiter can make an announcement that your beautifully packaged edible wedding favors contain the following ingredients, thus if anyone has an allergy – please refrain from indulging.
Hard candies and mints make for excellent wedding favors, as you do not have to worry about them melting at room temperature. Flavored jelly beans are adored by children and adults alike. You can buy these jelly beans in bulk quantities and create a large number of candy sachets for your edible wedding favors.
Whatever you decide to give as an edible wedding favor, you know that it serves a purpose. It will not puzzle your guests and make them wonder where to place it in their homes. It will serve as a beautifully packaged treat that matches your overall décor. It’s the idea of your gift that counts most. If your loves ones can see that the wedding favor came from your heart, they will embrace it with the fondest memories of your special wedding day.
Jen Carter is owner of My Wedding Blog, a free wedding planning guide about weddings. This article can be found in our favor ideas section. You may publish our articles on your website only if you do not edit the article in any way, and include all html as direct links to our site.
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Wednesday, November 19th, 2008
“Let the efforts of us all, prove that he was not a mere dreamer when he spoke of the beauty of genuine brotherhood and peace being more precious than diamonds or silver or gold.
Let a new age dawn!”
Nelson Mandela, Nobel Peace Prize Acceptance Speech, 1993
Diamonds continue to be in great demand, in particular for use as settings in engagement or wedding rings. The durability, beauty, and tradition of using diamonds to symbolize lasting and deep commitment make it the single most sought-after and valued stone. One of the longest-standing traditions in the Western world has been the use of diamonds in engagement and wedding rings. This continuing high demand, connected with the tremendous value of diamonds, and their origination, in many cases, from poverty-stricken regions of the world, has led to conflict.
Tragically, in certain cases, this conflict has resulted in terrible violence and suffering. Diamonds originating from terrorized and war-torn regions of Africa are referred to as “Blood Diamonds.” Many people in developed nations and around the world remain unaware of the horrors that sometimes lead to the very diamonds set in rings meant to symbolize a happy union. Politically aware Westerners, however, have recently begun to take strong measures to correct these injustices, refusing to buy “Blood Diamonds” and insisting on diamonds from peaceful regions.
Jewelers and suppliers of precious stones, with increasing frequency, certify their diamonds as “clean” or more commonly, “Conflict-Free.” What does this certification mean? How is such a certification obtained? And how has the Conflict-Free diamond trade had an impact?
“Conflict-Free” diamonds are stones the trade in which has not supported civil war, terrorism, or brutality against local populations. This designation arose in response to the turmoil surrounding the diamond trade, especially in Angola, Sierra Leone, and The Democratic Republic of the Congo, as well as other areas of South Africa. In these regions, the diamond trade was taken over by violent rebels and warlords. While using the funds from diamond mines guarded by paramilitary and mercenary troops, these guerilla forces have been known to terrorize local villages and mutilate miners and trespassers, including subjecting people to forced amputations.
In response to this abominable situation, several watchdog groups arose, and their combined efforts, including consciousness-raising in the West, and political and economic pressure, led South African countries with a legitimate trade in diamonds to implement a new system called the Kimberly Process Certification Scheme (KPCS). This system tracks every diamond from mine to supplier or jeweler, and each Conflict-Free diamond is authenticated as originating from a nonviolent source.
A recent survey conducted by Amnesty International showed that while consumer interest in Conflict-Free diamonds has risen, jewelry retailers have been somewhat slow to respond. Only 27% of the responding jewelers indicated they had a policy on Conflict-Free diamonds, and only 13% were willing to certify that their diamonds were “clean.”
However, the international movement to end the trade in Blood Diamonds has gained tremendous momentum. The United Nations, The European Commission, the World Diamond Organization (the main trade group in diamonds), and even giant diamond supplier, DeBeers, have agreed to trade only in KPCS-certified diamonds. These breakthroughs have largely resulted from grassroots, consumer pressure.
Consumer demand for Conflict-Free diamonds has soared. Although raw diamonds from regions of violence and war account for only 5% of the total global diamond production, consumers have spoken resoundingly, and the number of requests for Conflict-Free diamonds has increased by 1,500% in the past 6 years. Consumer interest in combination with several diamond embargoes, endorsed by the world diamond trade and the United Nations, have greatly reduced or curtailed the horrors of a diamond trade that was violent, terroristic, and utilized to support armed conflict.
The growing movement toward wedding ceremonies that reflect the strongly held values of the bride and groom is reflected in the Conflict-Free diamond effort. An increasing number of couples are choosing wedding ceremonies that are carefully crafted to embody their spiritual, social, and political values. Sometimes called the “green” wedding movement, this trend is marked by gift registries that include donations to favorite charities, organic or locally-grown catered food, personally written vows and new ways of designing the ceremony itself. Conflict-Free diamonds are yet another way to emphasize that the partnership of marriage is rooted in deeply held conviction. Wedding rings, a symbol of lasting commitment, need not support appalling violence and human rights abuses, thanks to the growing number of jewelers who offer Conflict-Free diamonds.
Peter Breslin is a musician, astrologer, Tarot reader, teacher and freelance writer for Artisanweddingrings.com and Celticjewelry.com living in Santa Fe, New Mexico. He has taught mathematics, music, writing, and literature in the course of a 20-year teaching career in Pennsylvania, New York, New Mexico, and California. Writings include a variety of pieces for publications online and otherwise. He is currently at work on a novel.
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Tuesday, November 18th, 2008
Eloping Is Budget Friendly
A bargain compared with the cost of conventional weddings, which according to Modern Bride magazine the average couple will spend in the neighborhood of $19,000, considerable more if they happen to live in a big city. An elopement wedding and honeymoon costs in the neighborhood of $5,000. A couple can stay at the best hotels, eat like kings, see the world through a unique perspective, and return home with marriage certificate in hand — with enough left over to throw a reception, if
they so wish.
Eloping Gives You the Time
Where a conventional wedding can consume a year or more of advance planning, elopement ceremonies are arranged in a matter of weeks, sometimes even days. Preserving more time for each other.
Eloping Preserves Your Sanity
Playing it loose is part of the thrill of eloping. Everything need not be perfect. When it’s just the two of you, alone, with little to concentrate on besides your love for one another the stress is not part of your memory.
Eloping Is Fun, Uncomplicated & Easy
Things have a way of coming together at the last minute when you elope. Passers-by volunteer to be your witness or congratulate you on your marriage. Everyone smiles as you pass by. Cloud’s part. Miracles happen. It’s one of the many joys.
Eloping Is Uniquely Yours
Eloping is still a novelty in the sense that, there are lots of choices out there, and unlimited opportunity to differentiate oneself from the herd. That’s a good thing, yes?
Whatever your reason to elope is…it can be all of the above or just one reason.
Eloping is a way to celebrate the intimacy of the love you share.
Ema Drouillard Intimate Wedding Specialist To have an Elopement Package personally designed for you,
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Sunday, November 16th, 2008
Judge John E. Jones III’s decision in the Dover trial has been heralded as a great victory for science and science education and a major setback for intelligent design and creationism.
It is neither of these. The Dover trial is simply the latest certainly not the last in a long line of largely irrelevant and inconsequential legal challenges to the teaching of evolution in America. The most famous of these is certainly the Scopes Trial. Nominally, Scopes lost and was fined in this historic encounter, but the real loser was the teaching of evolution weakened in the wake of the verdict as skittish textbook publishers downplayed the controversial theory.
Another celebrated legal encounter occurred in 1982 in Little Rock, Ark., when that state proposed to mandate “equal time” high school pedagogy, requiring creationism to be taught alongside evolution. The judge concluded that there was no basis for teaching creationism with evolution in Arkansas public schools. In an about-face from Scopes, creationism lost this battle, but continued to dominate the cultural battle among Americans at large.
A similar challenge originated in Louisiana in 1987 and eventually made its way to the Supreme Court where, presumably, once and for all, creationism was declared unscientific, religious and not appropriate for America’s high school biology classes. But polls continued to show that America’s rejection of evolution was as widespread as ever.
Intelligent design creationism’s successor suffered its first major legal defeat in Dover late last year. But like similar legal defeats of its parent species, the defeat means next to nothing to the American public. Polls will continue to show opposition to evolution. The real effect of the Dover ruling will prove to be as inconsequential as its predecessors in Tennessee, Louisiana or Arkansas.
America’s battle over evolution is not about science nor even about education. It is about religion, and, as such, can only be understood as a culture war between religion and secularism. The legal hairsplitting we have seen about how science is religiously neutral and religion can be reconciled with evolution is an ivory-tower perspective that may warm the hearts of philosophers but does little to thaw the chill between the culture warriors who disagree.
The careful, sober language of Judge Jones stands in marked contrast to the rhetorically charged commentary that has emerged from both sides over the past few decades as religious and secular visions of origins have competed for the allegiance of Americans.
Liberal publications produced cartoons heaping ridicule on the opponents of evolution, portraying them as “missing links.” Anti-religious spokespeople for science described the illiteracy and backwardness of the creationists. Richard Dawkins called creationists “cavemen,” an insult that Isaac Asimov seconded on the back cover of Dawkins’ influential book The Blind Watchmaker. In his review of Blueprints in The New York Times, Dawkins charged that people who did not believe in evolution were “stupid, wicked, or insane.” Dawkins is considered by many to be the leading public intellectual in the English-speaking world, and there are countless other leading anti-religious intellectuals who share his views, such as Daniel C. Dennett, Peter Atkins and Stephen Pinker.
Creationists countered that science was trying to undermine religion. Their leader Henry Morris argued in his influential book The Long War Against God that evolution was a part of Satan’s strategy to destroy faith in God. His views are shared by many of today’s influential religious leaders, such as Ken Ham, James Dobson and D. James Kennedy.
So, while major confrontations like the Dover trial get headlines and give the impression that important battles are being won and lost, they are really nothing more than highly visible skirmishes while the real battle the one for hearts and minds, not stickers and textbooks continues unabated.
Karl Giberson is editor of Science & Theology News.
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Saturday, November 15th, 2008
What does God think of rich people? I know what a lot of people say about rich people. You’ve probably heard phrases like, “Filthy rich”, “Stinking rich”, “Lousy rich people”, etc.
It seems that there is an underlying belief that to be rich is wrong and yet most people wouldn’t mind at all if their bank balance had an extra zero or two or three at the end of it!
There are a lot of people who assume that those who are rich got their wealth dishonestly, or, never had to work for it. Some see the rich as snobs who look down on the rest of the world. How rare it is to find someone who is actually glad that someone has tremendous wealth! Most think that rich people don’t deserve to be rich and that it is wrong be rich. It’s just not fair for them to have all that money! There are some religious people who actually think that being rich is not right in the sight of God.
But what does the Bible say? It does not say that money is the root of all evil; it says that the love of money is the root of all evil. You can have a dollar and love it, and you can have a million dollars and not love a dime of it.
There are a number of great people mentioned in the Bible who were rich, very rich. Job was the greatest man in the East. He lost everything and God restored double back to him! God did that for Job – gave him double!
Abraham in the Bible is called the friend of God and the father of all them that believe and he was very rich in cattle, silver and gold. How about David? Solomon? The list goes on and on.
When Jesus died, it was Joseph of Arimathea, a rich man, who took care of the burial. He had the means to do what he did.
Now I know that there are some who would argue that those mentioned above were special people with special reasons why they had riches and that they were just the exceptions. But if that is true why is there promise after promise of prosperity in the Bible? And please don’t fall for that fatalistic idea that some are “just meant to prosper and others are not.” Again, if that were true why are there so many promises of prosperity all over the Bible? There is nothing in the Scriptures to even remotely suggest that God would have some to be rich, some to be poor, and the rest to be in the middle.
Not too long ago, “The Prayer of Jabez” was very popular. All the items that were associated with it were basically from I Chronicles 4:10. If you read that verse you’ll find that Jabez simply asked God to bless him, to enlarge his coast, to be with him and keep him from evil. And God granted him what he requested! God didn’t say what most people would have said, “Oh Jabez, you are getting greedy, just be satisfied with what you have!” No. God gave him what he requested!
Now I know that there are a lot of Scriptures related to this topic to consider, and that a few might at first glance appear to be in opposition to prosperity and wealth. But those few cannot be magnified above the numerous obvious verses that show God’s desire for His people to be successful and prosper. There is a verse that plainly states that God wishes above all things that we prosper and be in health!
Prosperity and wealth can be obtained honestly or dishonesty – ethically or unethically. But far too many are so quick to judge when they see someone with prosperity and wealth. It is really sad because there are a lot of wonderful successful Christians who are being unfairly judged and condemned because of the blessings they have received from God. They work hard, apply principles expect God’s blessings, and receive abundantly. Prosperity is a blessing from God available to all.
So what does God think of rich people? Is God displeased with the wealthy? Does He want everyone to be poor? God desires above all things, for all His children, to prosper and to be in health.
Michael A. Verdicchio is the author and producer of “Inspirational Pep Talks”, available at http://www.inspirationalpeptalks.com He is also the author of the book, “Healing From God is Available”.
He has produced other motivational and inspirational items, including the audio CD, Healing Words, available at http://www.christianinspirationalgifts.com
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